Problems and solutions
Mechanicals – I worked on bike maintenance skills, and a friend agreed to be at the end of the phone for anything I couldn’t handle. That was a comfort.
Loneliness – In preparation, I did a few day-long rides alone. I learned that, though my mind would be skittish for the first couple of hours dwelling obsessively on the risks, it would eventually settle into a happy, meditative state.
Danger –Research told me French roads are engineering masterpieces, not the pot-holed chaos of my local roads and French drivers are respectful of cyclists. Life experience told me people are essentially kind and that help springs from unexpected and life-affirming quarters.
Dining alone – To avoid feeling self-conscious in restaurants, I would eat out earlier – a 6.30 pit stop is more transactional than a 7.30 dinner. Takeaways and supermarkets were also options.
Fear – I joined an online women’s bikepacking community. Their stories, questions and dreams helped inspire me and normalised the idea of women travelling solo.